Rehearsing When Stakes Are Low

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Teaching a child a life skill is never as simple as explaining a rule once or writing it on a board. When children find themselves in high-pressure situations, whether standing up to a friend or navigating conflict, stress can quickly push them outside their comfort zone. If they have not had the opportunity to truly internalise the response, their nervous system often takes over.

In this episode, Lauren Edmunds explores how children develop and retain real-world skills. Through practical, everyday examples, she explains why role-playing different scenarios at home, when the stakes are low, gives children a safe space to practise, experiment, and build genuine confidence.

It is an insightful look at helping children develop emotional resilience and self-belief, so that when high-pressure moments arise, they are better equipped to respond with confidence rather than simply reacting.
3 Aug English South Africa Education · Self-Improvement

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