Putting pleasure first

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We learn all about how different sex can feel and look if we don’t chase orgasms but rather centre pleasure & honest pleasure. To just play, feel and enjoy what brings you pleasure and what brings the other bodies pleasure. Mention of @checheluna discussing the "sexcalator" as how we chase a binary & linear idea of what sex is taught to us as. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Jan 2022 English South Africa Education · Sexuality

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